kek khi like hell
FRUSTRATION! feel like scowling at anyone coming near me now. damn it. what's wrong with expressing opinion from my own perspectives?? i don't need some childish naive girl to come and tell me 'oh my, i think u are stereotyping more and more'. wtf! use another word lah! i'm so sick of ppl verballing the word 'stereotype'. they think it's cool is it when u kno some stupid term? well, i'm telling you it's not and i've known the word since i was in primary.let me explode now please. i'm so geram i dunno where to start with. i'm feeling like such an idiot, when you know your facts are correct but a couple of people are telling you that you are not and they even add that you stereotyped, that's what bugs me now. i'm tremendously fuckingly extremely frustrated.
okie my psychology friends (joa, may, xinch), i have a question to ask. does studying psychology means you MUST polish your counselling skills? i believe it is useful but that wasn't even my opinion yet. i just commented on wht my lecturer is gonna do next semester, he said he will be teaching us social psychology by adding counselling techniques into it (presumably because he is a die-hard fan of counselling, he is a licensed counsellor, he has a Master in counselling). But i do not understand why in social psychology as a subject we can't even study the subject as it is, pure social psych, can't UTAR give the students a break, even in supposedly unrelated subjects, i can't get away with counselling. AND there are still other subjects of counselling for goodness' sake in that very semester. But my 2 lovely friends, after hearing wht i said, one saying that well mayb social psych and counselling are related that's why he will be doing that. as far as i know, when we learn social psych in pre-u there wasn't a word of counselling in the reference book. and she being the supreme rationale of my mind, says that i have stereotyped more and more WITH a concerned and tired look. shit you. the other start saying things like well we wanna study psychology, counselling is undeniably important also, u want to become a psychologist, you will be a therapist right? well therapist and counsellor is the same.
THEY FUCKINGLY DO NOT GET ME! Who in their right mind would say therapist and counsellor is the same? do they even know what the hell they are taking? im so damn annoyed, im pissed like shit! the person who said i stereotyped, well it's not the first time she said so, of cos she doesn't bother cos she 100% will be transferring because she too does not like counselling but how can a person like dat agrees that if you study psychology you have to know counselling?
yes learning counselling is an added advantage, but my point there wasn't about opposing counselling, i was saying that because i feel we have no room for other aspects of psychology because everything, every little hope of other aspects is drowned away with counselling stuffs. NO variety at all, and psychology is supposed to have a wide area.
HAHAH and therapist = counsellor? she wouldn't even listen to me when i said no, she showed me her ugly i-am-so-confident expression that i find no need to explain n let it be. im sick of ppl like this around me, for once i thought they are the only people who understand what i want but no i am wrong i guess. i was just stating all that personally as my own view on my own perspective, but it's either they took it personally or they feel that they are correct all the while. with this people around, the closest to me in utar actually, even with them, i guess i better remain silent or dumb next time. no more opinions from bsim in utar. no more.
